Connor is 21 years old he was riding his
康纳今年 21 岁，
motorbike about 50 miles an hour when
当时他正以每小时 50 英里的速度骑摩托车，
his Clips occurred come off hit the
他的头盔脱落，撞到了
telegraph pole at the point where he
电线杆上，就在他
took the Telegraph police helmet has
拿起电报警察头盔的地方，
come off his head then he'd landed in a
他的头盔从头上掉了下来，然后他摔倒在一个
dip there's a lot on the line for the
凹陷处，那里有一个 对于
trauma patients
创伤患者来说，
they can deteriorate pretty quickly
他们的情况可能很快恶化，这
can be a matter of life or death and we
可能是生死攸关的问题，我们
want to get them in this scan as quick
希望尽快让他们接受扫描。
as possible
I honestly didn't know what to expect
老实说，我不知道会发生什么，
I felt like I've already lost him once
我感觉我已经 失去他一次
and I can't I'm losing again
，我不能我再次失去
me and Connor was born in Derby
我和康纳出生在德比
growing up Connor was very happy
长大康纳很高兴
it was a quite smart when he wanted to
这是一个相当聪明的时候，他想
be
quite cheeky
相当厚脸皮，
but we was tight I like tired of super
但我们很亲密，我喜欢厌倦强力
glue
胶，
I couldn't ask for a better brother
我不能 我不会要求一个更好的兄弟、
mum and dad and a better family
妈妈和爸爸以及更好的家庭，
we was always out doing lots of family
我们总是一起出去做很多家庭
stuff together it wasn't until we was
事务，直到我们
about 13 or 14 and we started to real
13 或 14 岁左右，我们才开始真正
honest
坦诚，
our family wasn't our real family
我们的家庭不是我们真正的家庭，
I think for mum and dad it was hard to
我 想想爸爸妈妈很难
say when to tell us or how to tell us we
说什么时候告诉我们或如何告诉我们 我们
were adopted
是被领养的
and it made me kind of very distant
，这让我感觉很疏远，
we pushed everything away
我们把一切都推开了，
even each other
甚至彼此也推开了，
so we've done all your scans we've found
所以我们对你做了所有的扫描，我们发现
that in your head
你的头部
in on the surface of your brain
表面有
small amount of blood okay you do need
少量的血液，好吧，你确实需要
to linearity which is the brain doctors
线性，也就是大脑医生，
it'll just be us keeping a close eye on
我们会
you in hospital and you've also
在医院密切关注你，很
obviously got that broken leg which will
明显你的腿断了，
need to put in a better splint a bit
需要放一个更好的夹板，有点
like the one you're in but a bigger one
像你现在的这个，但是 更大的一个
just to get it in a better position for
只是为了让它处于更好的位置，为
the today comes future about fixing it
今天的未来做好准备，把它固定
on that left-hand side that long is
在左边，那么长的是
collapsed okay which is obviously why
折叠的，好吧，这显然是
you finish doing a little bit on the new
你完成对新胸部的一点点操作，
chest so we need to get that long
所以我们需要得到那么长的
reinflated
重新充气
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they collapsed long can be quite serious
他们倒下的时间很长，
if there is a lot of air in the chest
如果胸部有大量空气，
and that's stopping the patient
并且阻止患者
breathing then we need to act on that
呼吸，那么情况可能会非常严重，那么我们需要
pretty quickly because if not it can
尽快采取行动，因为如果不这样做，可能会
totally life-threatening
完全危及生命，
I'm coming at you for more directions
我正要 你需要更多的指导，
but we'll give you some decent stuff
但我们会给你一些不错的东西，
okay
好吧，她
must have only been about 21 or 22 maybe
大概只有 21 或 22 岁，
when she had Conor and I she had some
当时她有 Conor 和 她小时候有一些
mental health issues
精神健康问题
and quite severe post-traumatic stress
和相当严重的创伤后应激
disorder
障碍，
from when she was a child
sorry Connor when I was one and a half
对不起康纳，当我一岁半的时候，
she's
她
commit suicide
自杀了
when we found out that our mum and dad
当我们发现我们的妈妈和爸爸
wasn't a real parents we was crying it
不是真正的 父母我们哭了，
was non-stop tears there was a lot of
泪水不停地流，拉吉有点
Raj
was sort of just gone off the rails
走上了歧途，
we stopped going to school
我们不再上学，
we started drinking getting worse and
开始喝酒，情况越来越
worse and I don't think my adopted
糟，我不认为我的
parents could handle
养父母能应付
teenagers being aggressive my mum and
青少年的攻击性 我的
dad just thought the best thing to do is
父母认为最好的办法就是
just let us venture out on our own
让我们自己出去冒险，
so he moved to Derby and I moved to
所以他搬到了德比，我搬到了
Lincoln
林肯。
foreign
外国
it's doing all the right things what the
就是做所有正确的事情，
information involves is putting a rod uh
信息涉及的是把一根棍子放在
in the middle of the boat okay and that
中间 船没事了，这
will help stabilize the boat
将有助于稳定船，
I've been so used to having somebody
我已经习惯了有人
there to joke with or make me smile and
在那里开玩笑或逗我笑，
it was like everything had just gone
就好像一切都消失了
and it was just me
，只剩下我一个人，
and then I found out of social media
然后我在社交媒体上发现
that he was on the streets
他 在街上
a heavily an addict like to drink and
酗酒、
drugs
吸毒，
I know we're all finished okay
我知道我们都完了，
after a year and a bit living by myself
经过一年多的生活
in social housing I went back to college
我独自住在社会住房里，回到大学，
I sorted my maths and my English out I'd
我解决了数学和英语问题，我
saved some money I'd managed to
存了一些钱，我设法
completely change my life for the better
彻底改变了我的生活，让我的生活变得更好
and when I was 18 I reached out to my
，当我 18 岁的时候，我向我的父母寻求帮助 一
productive mom and dad
at first they were shocked but there was
开始他们很震惊，但
over the moon
after a few weeks we just got on again
几周后我们又恢复了联系，
we clicked like we were
我们一拍即合
and the next step was to get Connor back
，下一步就是把康纳找回来，
me my mum and my dad traveled down to
我妈妈和爸爸去了
Derby
德比，想
to just see if we could find him and
看看我们能不能 找到他，我
thought Derby's a big place
以为德比是个大地方，
but my gut was telling me that he's
但我的直觉告诉我他就在
there
那里，
and amazingly we was walking through
令人惊讶的是，我们正穿过
Derby Town Center
德比镇中心
and we found him
，我们发现了他，
it was in this doorway with lots of
他和许多
other people I went up to him and I said
其他人一起在门口，我走到他面前，对他说，
hey bro do you know who it is
嘿兄弟 你知道他是谁吗？
and it he opened his eyes and now and he
他睁开了眼睛，
saw me and he couldn't believe it
看到了我，他简直不敢相信，
he was very skinny very dirty
他很瘦，很脏，
I was just so happy to be reunited with
我很高兴能和
him I didn't care what he looked like
他团聚，我不在乎他长什么样
what he smelt like I'd still give him a
他闻起来像什么我仍然会给他一个
hug
拥抱
he was heavily addicted to drinking
他很沉重 当时康纳沉迷于饮酒和
drugs at that time
吸毒，他
Connor went through medical treatment
接受了
for about two years
大约两年的治疗，
I made sure he was aware that I was
我确保他知道我在
there and I wasn't going anywhere again
那里，我不会再去任何地方了，
your mum is on the way I spoke to and
你的妈妈正在路上，我和她谈过了，
told her everything we all came back to
告诉了她我们来这里的所有事情 回到
live together
一起生活
now must have loved us and cared for us
现在一定爱我们，关心我们
and it was that instant connection back
，正是这种瞬间的联系让
together
we're together we can do this
我们重新在一起，我们可以做到这一点，
it's been three months since I left
我出院已经三个月了
hospital and I've got a full function of
，我的身体功能已经完全恢复
my leg
the next step for me Shane is to get a
Shane，我的下一步是一起买一套
flat together
公寓，
and to keep enjoying life
继续享受生活。
I feel very lucky to have Mama and Dad
我很幸运有妈妈、爸爸
and Shane
和 Shane